tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24430615.post3950695801401343442..comments2024-02-11T10:34:07.463-05:00Comments on Pursuing Love: The love I deserve Margiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00110651946602849853noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24430615.post-73765841285051652052012-10-27T11:53:23.750-04:002012-10-27T11:53:23.750-04:00I will comment: First, you are beautiful in a bas...I will comment: First, you are beautiful in a baseball cap AND sweats. I think you need to just release all of the pre-conceived ideas you have .. and expectations. Love can start off with the butterflies, going out dressy .. anticipation .. narrow down your ideas to start off. Let love build without a list to check off. Of course, there should be some absolutes on a short list .. such as a devoted love for God and Christian morality. I think that falling in love at a young age you don't know what to have on your 'list' .. so you are free to build and experience the relationship as you grow more deeply in love. When you have a list beforehand, you tend to compare the person to the list and when they fall short .. or you fall short, then it's time to give up. Does this make sense? Now that you are grown up and with a young adult daughter, you can have a fresh start .. but remember to not have a measuring stick (long list). Love grows differently with each couple. The key point is 'grows' .. it's a relationship that develops layers as time passes. If you come to the table with a list in your head, then your heart might not be free to grow into a relationship. Sorry if this is confusing .. just know that you are an amazing woman with lots to offer. Mrs. Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06644129213141875138noreply@blogger.com