I know that my heart will eventually heal. I know that eventually I will get past all this and be able to just live my life without this much hurt dwelling. I know that eventually I will forgive, even if I don't forget and keep a guarded heart. It's a like any other wound, it will heal slowly but eventually a scar will just remain.
but it's a lesson nonetheless. If you hurt yourself sticking your hand down the garbage disposal... you don't do that again.
Mal 4:2 But for you who revere my name, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its wings. And you will go out and leap like calves released from the stall.